eleothegreat Posted September 27, 2009 Report Share Posted September 27, 2009 I would have to disagree. The best part of a girl, in my humble opinion, is the nice round ass. Do you know that Callipygian (Callipygous) refers to having round shaped buttocks? And our fascination for round asses or full breasts began as primates? Early female primates who didn't stand upright attracted male primates or sent sexual messages of their readiness to breed through their round and full buttocks. As human beings developed and stood upright, therefore communicating on a daily basis by facing each other, the preference for the ass was put aside as females humans started to develop round and fleshy breasts (this is not because of the biological need for women to feed children, because as you know, men can lactate too and they don't have huge breasts. But that's another story). So your preference for the ass goes way back to our primate ancestors! Haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beer Chang Posted September 27, 2009 Report Share Posted September 27, 2009 I have a close gay friend who wants only lady boys. Everyone is different, which is why I say to you to try some lady boy bars to see if they appeal to you or not. Thailand is a country where you do not have to be embarrassed or ashamed if you like lady boys. Strangely enough most guys who prefer ladyboys consider themselves straight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lvdkeyes Posted September 28, 2009 Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 Well, we know differently, don't we? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juanito Posted September 28, 2009 Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 Sometimes you want to get it on with a man. Sometimes a girl seems like a good idea. Sometimes both have their own unique appeal. Gay or straight we all have a desire to try something a little different. That’s what makes Thailand a great place to visit; you can literally have your boobs and eat cock too! Perhaps the most celebrated part of Thailand’s gay culture are the famous Ladyboys that can be found in even the smallest rural villages. While Ladyboys are similar to Western transvestites, there are some huge cultural differences. The most important difference comes from Thai history and traditions. According to legends from Northern Thailand, the first man and woman had three children, a boy, a girl and a “third sex.†Today the “third sex†is considered to be the Ladyboys; which may explain why there are at least 180,000 of these “girls†spread throughout Thailand. Other legends say that Ladyboys are actually the reincarnation of men who made love to many, many women in a former lifetime: so that they now permanently carry the spirit of women in their bodies. Katoey Toys! Referred to in Thailand as Katoey, these “girls†are certainly no drag queens. In most cases a lot of care and time has been spent to make sure these guys look like real women: and not the exaggerated female stereotypes common in American drag shows. While these girls all have hot cocks under their skirts many have realized that size matters everywhere; and have larger than life boobs to complete their picture of a feminine ideal Ladyboys are, in general, an accepted and respected part of Thai society. In most cases they don’t suffer anywhere near as much prejudice as their western counterparts and are usually almost fully accepted as the women they are trying to be. Let Them Entertain You! Many of the Katoey perform in the cabaret shows that have become hugely popular in Thailand’s gay bars. The best Ladyboy cabaret shows can be found in Pattaya, the beach town south of Bangkok. Some of the larger Katoey shows literally feature dozens, if not hundreds of Ladyboys for your eye candy. There are also many escort agencies that offer Ladyboys on demand. You can find them in our listings or by checking out advertisements at many of the local gay establishments. Tips And Tricks For Chicks With Dicks! You need to be a little careful when dealing with Ladyboys outside of a supervised host bar. In Pattaya in particular there have been cases of Ladyboys who troll the beaches at night in order to mug tourists when they have their pants down. Don’t let this get you down! Most Ladyboys are nice people. There are just a few rotten apples in any barrel! Another important thing to keep in mind is that not all Ladyboys are bottoms. Some can top with the best of them, so when you first start talking with an attractive he/she you should make your preferences known: so that you don’t get more than you bargained for out of the experience! Also be aware that some Ladyboys are full on transsexuals and may have either taken hormones, been castrated or both. Figuring out what type of Ladyboy you are talking to can often be part of the fun. In general if you are in a gay bar talking to a feminine looking thing, you can assume that the girl was a boy at one time and may be now. Guessing before you take off her skit can be a challenge, because the Thai male body type lends itself very well to creating a feminine mystique. Host Bars Ladies More often than not Ladyboys can be rented out for a night of fun in the host bars; and surprisingly enough are popular entertainers for both gay and straight audiences! Because Thailand society treats Ladyboys with respect, you should as well. Just because you are paying for their time does not give you a license to abuse, insult or treat them any differently than you would like to be treated. Ladyboys are people too! Many Ladyboys suffered severe financial hardship when the tsunami cut into Thailand tourism. Often Ladyboys have families to support: so we encourage you to be generous if you should find yourself out on a date with a “girl†with something extra between her legs! For many of us to visit here often, the loving nature of the Ladyboys is a big appeal to visit Thailand. Many of the will take in the boys who first come to work on the bars and take care of them. The people of Thailand are very accepting of homosexuality and Ladyboys. Please leave your prejudices and misconceptions about Ladyboys or Dragqueens in your home country. They are truly one of the most amazing parts of Thai culture and deserve your respect! cc: 2005-2009 GayThailand.com Reprinted on ThailandVisa.com with permission 2009 I may have another explanation on why there are so many Katoey in Thailand. I once heard from a Thai friend of mine, that many years ago, even still now, women were the ones who kept the budget at home, and that it was usual that the Thai men always give part if not all his paycheck to his wife. It was this way because men always tent to spend money in alcohol and girls, but women are more careful in spending the money in a better way, thinking in spending money in things that are really necessary as food and bills. So all the time a woman got pregnant, she was wishing it was a baby girl, and if not, this baby boy was taught to be a girl, in order to teach "her" to save money and use it on useful stuff. what do you think about this theory? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juanito Posted September 28, 2009 Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 Something else that came to my mind was the way they also talk. For those who have been in Thailand, you may have heard that there is a certain way for you to finish a sentence if you are a man, and there´s another way to do it if you are a woman. If you are a man you finish your sentence with the word "krap" and if you are a woman you do it by saying "kha" this is just a polite way to talk for them, and this suffixes doesn't mean anything at all at the end fo a sentence (if I'm wrong, please let me know) if they are saying alone, they just mean "yes" yes, there's a way to say yes for a man, and another for a woman. But how about if you are a kotey, I wondered once! and the answer came from another friend of mine who is gay, he said, thay just say "ha" sawad dee krap for men sawad dee Kha for women and sawad dee ha for them! isn't this quite interesting?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beer Chang Posted September 28, 2009 Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 he said, thay just say "ha" sawad dee krap for men sawad dee Kha for women and sawad dee ha for them! isn't this quite interesting?? All the ladyboys I've ever met say kha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lvdkeyes Posted September 28, 2009 Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 My bf just told me that ladyboys don't use "ha". It is sometimes used by male children to their parents, but it is not often used. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beer Chang Posted September 28, 2009 Report Share Posted September 28, 2009 Btw, ladyboys here use the female bathroom. That's a big issue for transgenders in the West but a non-issue here in the LOS. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WannaGo Posted September 29, 2009 Report Share Posted September 29, 2009 Strangely enough most guys who prefer ladyboys consider themselves straight. Is this right, guys? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beer Chang Posted September 29, 2009 Report Share Posted September 29, 2009 Is this right, guys? First we have to get clear what a ladyboy is. If you define a ladyboy as someone who dresses everyday as a woman and uses the woman's toilet then most guys who like them consider themselves straight despite whatever activities take place in the bedroom. Many gays use a much different definition to include effeminate acting guys. Most guys who like this type consider themselves gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WannaGo Posted September 30, 2009 Report Share Posted September 30, 2009 First we have to get clear what a ladyboy is. If you define a ladyboy as someone who dresses everyday as a woman and uses the woman's toilet then most guys who like them consider themselves straight despite whatever activities take place in the bedroom. Many gays use a much different definition to include effeminate acting guys. Most guys who like this type consider themselves gay. This could just be my own ignorance on the topic, but I thought a "ladyboy" was a term specifically for a transgender or transsexual prostitute and just figured there was some other term for a Thai who was transgender or transsexual and not a prostitute. Am I wrong about this? As I understand it, people who are transgender or into cross-dressing don't always consider themselves gay, so it would make sense that guys who prefer them would not consider themselves gay, either. And a transsexual, especially post-op, would consider herself to be a woman, so again it would make sense that a guy who was with a transsexual would probably consider himself more or less hetero. Then again, a lot of people don't really like to put themselves in any particular category and just do whatever feels good. Being a plain ol' hetero with no real interesting kinks (I'm not even into spanking), it all makes me feel so boring and provincial. I do get kind of hot for trashy women, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bob Posted September 30, 2009 Report Share Posted September 30, 2009 Okay, maybe some time for a little humor? (and I hope this isn't too unacceptable). And I have no clue where I found this one as I've had it for years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smoker Posted September 30, 2009 Report Share Posted September 30, 2009 My understanding is that most men, around the world, who want to have sex with transexuals consider themselves straight. There's some logic to this, in that they are not attracted to the male form. It's the female form that turns them on. Yes, they want that female form to include a cock, but if that cock was attached to a male looking body it would break their attraction. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beer Chang Posted September 30, 2009 Report Share Posted September 30, 2009 Okay, maybe some time for a little humor? The model is Areeya circa 2004. The original pic without the Mastercard joke is on asiants.com. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beer Chang Posted September 30, 2009 Report Share Posted September 30, 2009 My understanding is that most men, around the world, who want to have sex with transexuals consider themselves straight. There's some logic to this, in that they are not attracted to the male form. It's the female form that turns them on. Yes, they want that female form to include a cock, but if that cock was attached to a male looking body it would break their attraction. That bascly sums up the way most ladyboylovers feel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beer Chang Posted September 30, 2009 Report Share Posted September 30, 2009 This could just be my own ignorance on the topic, but I thought a "ladyboy" was a term specifically for a transgender or transsexual prostitute and just figured there was some other term for a Thai who was transgender or transsexual and not a prostitute. Am I wrong about this? Most ladyboys are not prostitutes. Ladyboy would more or less be the English equivalant of the Thai word katoey. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beer Chang Posted September 30, 2009 Report Share Posted September 30, 2009 transgender or into cross-dressing Being transgender is a way of life, identifying as the other sex. Crossdressing is a fetish, not that there's anything wrong with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WannaGo Posted October 3, 2009 Report Share Posted October 3, 2009 Being transgender is a way of life, identifying as the other sex. Crossdressing is a fetish, not that there's anything wrong with that. I could never be a cross-dresser...it's tough enough finding men's clothes that will fit my enormous ass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lvdkeyes Posted October 3, 2009 Report Share Posted October 3, 2009 I have found that tailor's are the solution to cover my big ass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smoker Posted October 3, 2009 Report Share Posted October 3, 2009 Word. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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